Empowered WOMEN, Empowering WOMEN

Here recently I’ve just been on a new wavelength. I was recently blessed with a segment of  8 videos. The first one is called, Before the Person. I hope you guys enjoy them just as much as i did. I honestly feel like it changed my life. I was already going through a shift & it was confirmation on my life.


I recently orchestrated an event with my close friends where they came over & spent some real quality time with me. My quote for this night was “Empowered Women, Empowering Women”. We started off with 10 questions of self reflection and openly discussed our answers. After we spent a good amount of time listening to music and creating our life boards, we finished up giving a quick synopsis. After we concluded with that exercise, I presented a jar full of questions that we passed around the room to draw from & also answer.

These ladies came with an open mindset and tried to be as transparent as i believed they could be. I wanted everyone to take something from it & I feel like it probably did more for me than it did for them. Who am I to ask these ladies to open up to me & be transparent with other women that they barely knew?

But Who I am not to do it? 

It was intimate, it was mind-blowing, it was what we all needed. Here is a snippet from some of the intimate discussion.

Don’t isolate yourself & think you’re alone. That’s not GOD, that’s the devil making you feel that way. We were never meant to be alone. People want to be there to support you, love you & let you know they got you. It’s up to you to let them in.

Im not perfect by FAR, but I am Brittany. I’ve never tried to be anything less or anything more! Im getting prepared for the next season in my life & I am excited, I can’t wait to see what it has in store for me.

My ultimate goal is to be a vessel, to let GOD use me for whatever is needed! I want visible results, i want people to see GOD in me! Endless possibilities, one day at a time! 💫💫

Hi its me, Brittany :)

Moi

My LifeBoard

Life Boards

Crafting.

Tristan.

Coretta.

Brunching.

Jae.

Constance.

Christie.

If you're interested in setting up your own intimate night with your close friends.. Heres a point by point of what I did here below:

All of my friends were not friends with each other, but I knew they would mesh, support and be very open to it.

-I required each participant to bring two bottles of wine, that way we would have plenty! One of my friends made a punch bowl of Sangria which was amazing.
-I also had them bring their poster board, old magazines, and any arts & crafts they had. ( Scissors, tape, glue, glitter, markers, ribbon, crayons, & etc)
-I gifted everyone with a wine glass with their initials on them *they ended up being super cute*
-At their arrival I had them take a shot of Vodka with lime, just to loosen them up a bit! ;)
-As they entered I collected all the items they brought, and handed them 2 sheets of paper. One was titled "10 questions, to help you live in your purpose right where you are" the other was a simple powerful photo.
-One of my friends helped me prepare dinner for everyone, which consisted of homemade chicken alfredo, tossed salad, corn on the cob & garlic bread.
-As I was preparing dinner and waiting on more ladies to arrive, the ladies started their discussion about the questions and their answers.
-Soon after we ate, we put all the magazines and crafts in the middle of the floor and start actively enjoying conversation, music, and finding things to put on our life board.
-Once we finished with the life boards, we all gave a synopsis on what our life board was about.
-After we finished, a jar of questions was passed around the room to openly discuss.
This part was very intimate and mind blowing.

The next morning we attended brunch and had a reflection of the night before.
I also gave the ladies journals to start daily journaling.
It wasn't much but it was everything!
Here below I have posted all the tools that I used at my life boarding event!
Please feel free to use whatever you like!
Leave a comment if you need any help with anything!
Have fun life boarding!!

 Questions in the Jar:

Why do some people stay in relationships that they know are toxic?

What are the highest and lowest points of your life?

Who are you really? Who is behind the mask that you show to the rest of the world?

There is a quote from Jack Kornfield that says, “ Like a sandcastle, All is temporary. Build it,Tend it, Enjoy it. And when the time comes, Let it go” What do you need to let go of in your life? How do you think you will feel once you let it go?

What does self- love mean to you?

What is love to you?

How will you make next month a great month?

Do you think you complain a lot? Why? What can you do to change it?

What brings you genuine Joy?

What are you afraid of?

In a few words or phrases,Describe how you are presently doing

What has been life-giving? What has been Life-Draining?

What things are presently occupying your mind and heart?

What is keeping me awake at night?

What Drains my energy? How can i remove it from my life or protect myself its negative effect?

What do i need more of in my life?

What are my priorities at the moment?

What do i love about myself?

What advice would i give to my your self? ( Do i follow this advice now?)

What is draining my energy? How can i reduce or cut it out?

What makes me come alive? When was the last time i felt Truly Alive?

Where does my pain originate? What would need to happen  for me to heal?

At the end of my life, What do i want my legacy to be?

What is a bad habit i’m going to break?

Something i’m going to do better at?

What do i want most in life? How can i get it?

What do i feel guilty about?

What advice would older me probably like to tell “ Now” me?

What do i wish i’d done differently in? Why? What would be different now?

What do feel is the biggest life lesson you have learned so far?

What has caused you to believe in God?

How do you feel about your family?

What is your most embarrassing moment?

What makes you want to wake up in the morning?

What goals are you working on right now?

What are you most grateful for in life?

What was the last thing you cried about?

What is one lesson that you learned from a failure?

How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

How do you like to be shown love?

What makes you uncomfortable when talking about sex?

Tell me about a challenge you’ve had in your life?

What have you been interested in or learning about lately?

What’s one thing that's happened to you that has made you a stronger person?

What's one thing that's happened to you in your life that made you feel weak?

I hope this was informative for everyone!
Love & Blessing

-B